In an effort to control impulse purchases we have developed an IN and OUT rule for almost everything. The rule is simple, if you buy something, you have to get rid of something similar.
It started simply enough, we were redoing our walk-in closet and saw that both my husband and I had an enormous amount of clothes, many of which we did not wear. We got rid of everything we did not wear anymore and were extremely pleased with the results. We knew what we owned, our closet was organized and we wanted to keep it that way and not get a huge build up of clothing again through the years OR go out and buy a ton of new clothing because we now had room in the closet to put it.
So now when I shop, before I buy that blouse because it is cute or on sale, I spend my time asking myself two questions what piece of clothing at home I am going to give up to make room for the blouse, and will I wear the blouse enough to warrant getting rid of something I actually wear. Keep in mind, I got rid of everything I didn’t wear.
I can tell you without a doubt as long as you make no exceptions your clothing purchases will go down. However, believe it or not, I actually feel like I have more to wear than I did before. Why you ask? Because now I know every piece of clothing in my closet, I know it fits, and I like the way it looks, so I tend to wear everything, and I also mix and match a lot more than I used to.
People now think that I spend more on my clothing than I did before because I am making use of what I have more, but in reality, I spend 10% of what I used to.
We have since expanded this rule to include things like toys, books, games, gaming systems, make-up, collectibles and a host of other things. What do we do with the items we sacrifice? The rule is it has to be sold, donated, or if unusable, thrown away. With fewer older things hanging around the house we are more organized and if we get rid of something, we tend to do so when it has some value. We aren’t trying to sell a game we bought 8 years ago, it might be only 2 with plenty of people still interested in it.
This new rule has also spawned some creative thinking on my sons part, who is an avid gamer who must have all the new games that come out to play them. He has teamed up with his 2 best friends and now when a new game comes out, one of them buys it (they rotate), and then when the game is completed it gets passed down to the other 2 guys in a system they have developed. With my son now buying 2/3′s less games than before he has less of an issue with the In and Out system, saves money and knows that he has access to the games he wants. Best of all, when instead of games he no longer plays collecting dust, he sells them and that further reduces his cost of gaming.